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Walking with Gratitude
Joyce Moseley Pierce
During this season of gratitude and thanksgiving, I wanted to write about
something we do every day with very little thought. Something we’ve been
doing since we were very small. Most of us did
it before we even talked. I’m talking about walking.
The way I see it, there are basically four reasons we walk.
1.Travel – To get from one place to another. We don’t even think about getting
up each morning and walking from our bed to the bathroom, but I watched my elderly
grandmother as an invalid for many years and gained an appreciation for my ability to get up and go wherever I
wanted without help from anyone else.
2.Pleasure – I remember taking walks with my grandfather and my dad as a child,
and that tradition has continued with my own grandkids. When the grandkids
come to visit, they love to walk down to the lake in our neighborhood to
feed the ducks. Part of the enjoyment, I believe, is just being away from
everyone else. We walk, we talk, and we just enjoy one another’s company. When I
was in Las Vegas for the birth of a new granddaughter, I walked the other two
kids to school one day. My granddaughter, Olivia, who was 5 at the time, stopped
other kids along the way to say, “My grandma is walking me to school.” She was
so proud, and I am so thankful to have the health to be able to walk with her.
3.Exercise – Walking is one of the best ways to exercise. You can walk at the
pace you need to
reach the desired heart rate. All you need is a pair of good walking shoes. No
clubs to join.
No classes to attend. You can walk during the day or at night. Inside or out. In
the mall or
on a treadmill. If you need more of a challenge, you can carry a backpack with
additional weight,
or you can swing your arms to raise your heart rate. You will find that your
legs have to move as fast as your arms. Even if you’re uncoordinated, it is
impossible for your legs not to follow your arms. Try it.
4.Peace of mind – You’ve heard of the “fight or flight” response? When I am
upset or when I have
things to work out in my mind, I go for a walk. I may start out stomping
as I try to release anger, but by the time I get back home, I have worked
through it and my mind has been cleared so that I can think rationally.
Instead of sitting in a chair stewing about a problem, or getting into a
fight with someone, walking can be great therapy, and you may be able to find a
rational way to resolve
the problem.
I suppose walking is one of those things I’m especially grateful for because
when I was a year old my mother realized I wasn’t walking properly. It looked
like one leg was longer than the other, but the actual problem was that the leg
hadn’t joined the hip properly. After tearfully pleading with other family
members who wanted to deny there was anything wrong with their little girl, she
made an appointment with an orthopedic surgeon and I was put in a body cast that
went from under my arms to my knees. I spent the next year in that cast. I
probably weighed as much as my mother did with that plaster cast. As an adult,
my aunts and uncles told me about how horrified they had been when they saw "the
horrible cast" and feared it would keep me from doing things other one year-olds
did. They told of their joy when they saw that I not only learned to walk, but
run and climb in spite of the challenges I had.
Probably the most valuable lesson from that experience was that I learned that
with encouragement, I could not only walk, but I was given the confidence
to believe that I could do anything.
On Thanksgiving when you stuff yourself with turkey, instead of curling up on
the couch and taking a nap, think about taking a walk instead. It will help
revive you and give you the time you need to think about the things you’re
grateful for.
Copyright 2002 Joyce Moseley Pierce
Joyce is a freelance writer and owner of Emerson Publications. Her latest release is “24 Days of Christmas,” to help families center on the birth of Christ during the holiday season. She is also the creator of “All They’ll Need to Know,” a book that will be invaluable to your loved ones when you can’t be there to guide them. Visit www.emersonpublications.com for lots of good family-friendly information.