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The Family First Newsletter
Promoting family unity one issue at a time
Vol. 9 Issue 30 - Week of August 21, 2006
ISSN: 1527-6201
©2006 - Joyce Pierce --All Rights Reserved


In this issue:

 

Empower Your Kids - Organize Your Life
Success and Balance
Be A Back-To-School Hero
Cut Your Grocery Bills in Half - 8 Essential Techniques for Every Shopper!


Good morning!

 

In most areas of the country, kids are back to school.  That means the end of summer vacations, staying up past bedtime, and sleeping in.  For those of you moms who work outside the home, it might bring relief if your kids are old enough to have been "home alone" all summer!  Whatever your situation, it's a brand new year.  Your child has the opportunity to start all over...and so do you!

 

You may have noticed that I have missed a couple of issues in the past month.  My husband and I took a 16 day vacation and traveled to Utah and Missouri.  (Just one of the perks of having our own businesses!)   We were able to spend a week with our daughter and her family in Park City, Utah, and then attend a wedding and family reunion in Missouri.  We had a wonderful time, and thanks to modern technology, we were able to run our business from the road.   

 

I hope your summer ended on a good note.  Now, let's get off to a positive start with the new school year.


Joyce Pierce

 


 

 


Empower Your Kids - Organize Your Life
by Patti Keating

Copyright 2006 Patti Keating

Are you robbing your children of the opportunity to learn valuable life skills? Moms who do less provide more learning opportunities and have children with higher self-esteem. When the whole family is involved in creating and following a smooth routine, magic happens.

Imagine for a moment your child waking up and making her bed. She quietly gets dressed and packs her bag for school. She strolls to the kitchen and puts a lunch ticket in her bag. The cat greets her and she fills his bowl with food, then takes out the trash. You arrive in the kitchen, say good morning, as you both sit down together and eat breakfast. Sound too good to be true? This is the routine my 7-year-old happily performs each school day morning. How? Last August we created a chart of responsibilities for all family members. Being recently separated from their father, we all needed to pitch in so I could run my coaching business and the boys could be part of a nurturing family routine.

How to do it: List your child's responsibilities (i.e. make bed, sort laundry, pack lunch). List fun activities (i.e. computer time, bike riding). Divide the day into 3 parts, before school, after school, and nighttime. When the list of responsibilities is complete, it’s time for the fun activities.

Why does this work? First, it empowers kids to make decisions that help them get what they want, a valuable life skill. Next, it is a clear plan that is easy to understand and accomplish. It feels good for kids to contribute, to see the results. Their pride boosts their self-esteem. It removes policing responsibility from you. The answer to the question "Can I ride my bike?" is on the chart. When the chart items are done, the fun activities begin. By mid school year we stopped posting the charts in their regular spot on the refrigerator. Why? The boys no longer needed them. The assigned duties had become well-established routines, and the charts were no longer necessary. They knew what to do and when to do it.

Would you like to give it a try? I have posted Spencer’s and Avery's charts on my website for you. Modify them for your family, and watch the change it creates. It’s a beautiful sight when my boys run in the door, grab a snack, and zoom off to get their homework done!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR Patti Keating, is a Coach, Trainer, and Entrepreneur. To learn more about her and sign up for more FREE tips like these, visit her site at http://www.IntentionsCoaching.com

Patti Keating may be contacted at http://www.intentionsoaching.com


  

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Success and Balance
by Leslie Householder

My husband and I just returned from Tahoe where we spent a few days brainstorming with a community of about 30-40 like-minded people on the topic of building wealth. I must say that ever since I decided to slow down and shift my focus a bit as we prepare for our 7th baby's arrival, I have been pleasantly surprised at how much camaraderie and support I continue to feel from those who have been our financial mentors. They know that a person should be able to make more in less time than most people think, so to announce that I am going to be more "Mom" and less "Speaker/Author/Guru/whatever" was met NOT with, "Oh, I guess you'll have to give up on your goals then..."

But more with, "It's about time you make this shift... you're doing the absolute right thing!" Would you ever expect to hear that from a multi-million dollar wealth-building mentor?

I've always thought so, but even more now than ever I am realizing how true it is that prosperity is NOT one-faceted. That is why as I teach principles of prosperity, I try to make sure I teach balance as well. There is a need for rest and relaxation. There's a need for rich, rewarding relationships. There's a need for giving back, or service. There's a need for good health. None of these have to die on one's journey to prosperity.

In actuality, financial prosperity comes more readily when one is at peace in the other areas of his/her life. You've heard, "attitude is everything"... and it is truer and more literal than most people realize. For example, if I am stressing out, the things I need are literally repelled. If I calm down and put myself in a peaceful state, even though I have every reason to be freaking out, then the solution flows into my life almost effortlessly. So wherein lies the effort? It lies in calming myself down. I must calm down, then get to work searching for the solution, KNOWING that because I am calm, I will find it eventually... and I proceed with expectation. Then, by LAW it must show up.

So, how have I been spending most of my time? Well, most of it has been focused on helping my 11-year-old and his scouting. We've managed to get 11 merit badges in the last 2 months, and my 2-year-old learned how to swim. THAT has been worth it all.

This has been an amazing experience... to choose to slow down and focus better on the family... because ever since then, after a testing period to see how committed we were to our priorities, there have been opportunities come our way that have left us nearly speechless. What used to take us a year to earn now comes to us in just one transaction... time and time again.

Not only do we expect to reach the goals we had set long before news of the baby, but it seems apparent that we will far exceed them in new kinds of ventures that we never realized even existed. I'm beginning to feel like Richard who suddenly sees not just the one rabbit in his hand, but swarms of them all over the place.

I promise you, they are out there... and they are out there even when you can't see them. As you learn to think according to the laws or principles of prosperity, the blinders fall from your eyes, and there they are. You'll be amazed at how you couldn't see them before.

Leslie is a wife and mother of 6 children. She is the best-selling author of "The Jackrabbit Factor: Why You Can" and founder of ThoughtsAlive.com

Leslie Householder may be contacted at http://www.ThoughtsAlive.com or Leslie@ThoughtsAlive.com

 


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Be a Back-to-School Hero!
by Colleen Langenfeld

Well, it's that time of year again.

Back-to-school has arrived.

If you have school-age children, then you are busy buying school supplies and getting their fall wardrobes ready. But what if you would like to do more? Or what if you don't have any school-age children but you understand what extra-support can mean in a classroom?

What can you do?

Plenty.

You can call up your local school and ask to help out one of their teachers by donating back-to-school supplies needed for the classroom. Do it all at once up front or offer to get her what she needs throughout the year. Sponsor a weekly or monthly contest in a classroom, such as math stars or a special reading program. Give a $10 gift certificate to the winner. It's not a big prize, but to a child, the motivation may be just what they need.

A geography teacher might need new maps or globes. I have never met an art teacher yet who had all the back-to-school supplies he needed. Got some old t-shirts? They might make perfect cover-ups in the art department. How about a science-related magazine subscription for the science department? Or inspirational posters to hang in the classrooms? A video or two the history teacher has been longing to add to the curriculum. A new set of the classics for the school library. The list can go on and on.

And sometimes just a never-ending supply of tissues for the teacher's desk can be a good thing.

There are always kids whose families can't afford the regular back-to-school supplies. Be a secret Santa and donate just what a child needs.

Of course, the gift of your time is always a winner. Offer to volunteer at your local school by reading to the kids. Helping teachers in the classroom or on field trips. Pitching in (gasp) in the lunch room. Perhaps the music department could use some one-on-one tutoring and you can pass on your love of music.

Bottom line? Get to know the future leaders of this world. They will probably remind you a lot of yourself at that age.

And one more back-to-school suggestion. Donuts or bagels on Friday mornings in the teachers' lounge can't hurt either!""

Colleen Langenfeld has been parenting for over 24 years and helps other busy moms at http://www.paintedgold.com.

Colleen Langenfeld may be contacted at http://www.paintedgold.com or mailbox@paintedgold.com


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Cut Your Grocery Bills in Half - 8 Essential Techniques for Every Shopper!
by Faye Prosser

Want to Buy Much More for Less? Imagine filling your cart with your favorite groceries but only paying a fraction of the total cost. By mastering the eight essential techniques, every shopper who buys groceries can get the most out of their hard-earned money.

1. Learn the art of couponing. Smart shoppers know, without question, that using coupons wisely is the greatest money saving technique when it comes to buying groceries. They know how, when and where to use those little pieces of "paper gold" and they know just where to find the best coupons for the products they prefer to buy. Their coupons are well organized and accessible so they don’t ever miss an unadvertised sale. Smart spenders pay for a good portion of their groceries using coupons and save more than 50% off their weekly budgets each and every week.

2. Compare apples to apples. How do you know whether something is really a bargain just because it is on sale? By developing a Price Book, you are able to compare the price per unit of one size package to another. This allows you to compare the 200-ounce box of warehouse club bran cereal to the 20-ounce bag of the same type of cereal from the grocery store. Smart spenders know the surprising news that often, the smaller container is less expensive per unit than the bulk container when used in conjunction with coupons and sales.

3. Gain leverage from sales flyers. By reviewing the sales flyers that stores issue every week, you can plan your weekly menu, decide where to shop, determine what to include on your grocery list, and choose the best money-saving coupons to use at the store. Smart spenders realize that the key to the greatest savings is purchasing the best sale items listed in the weekly flyers and then using coupons for those items.

4. Be a proud card-carrying member. Sign up for the frequent shopper rewards cards at the stores you shop. Without them, you won’t be offered the sale prices or special incentives and you may lose out on thousands of dollars in savings a year. Many stores will even mail great money-saving coupons to members throughout the year. Smart spenders take advantage of the sale prices by using their rewards cards every time they shop.

5. Savor store brand savings. Companies have worked hard to improve their private-label brands and often the taste is just as delicious as the national brand. Store brand products are generally 20% less expensive than the national brands, which means everyone should consider them as a money-saving option. Smart spenders understand that store brand items are another effective tool to lower their grocery bills, and they don’t let a little brand name loyalty stand in their way of savings.

6. Refuse to be overcharged. Many grocery stores carry 30,000 or more items. It is not hard to imagine that there may be a price mistake or two at the register. Before you leave the store, thoroughly review your receipt to make sure you weren’t overcharged. If you discover an overcharge, head straight to customer service and explain the error. Many stores have a price scan guarantee, which means that you will receive the entire cost you paid for the item and get to keep the product. Yes, this means you will take home the product for FREE! Smart spenders never leave the store without reviewing the receipt and requesting the price scan guarantee, when applicable.

7. Enjoy delayed gratification. Yes, it’s just what you were thinking - rebates. You buy an item that offers a rebate, fill out the form exactly as required, send in the UPC, receipt or other necessary proof of purchase and, after a short delay, you get your money back in the mail. If you are thinking that it doesn’t sound so difficult – you are right! But surprisingly, many people don’t take advantage of the amazing rebates available for everything from beef to toothpaste to pies. Smart spenders recognize that the savings opportunities are huge, if they are willing to fill out a little form and wait patiently for their gratifying reward.

8. Stick to your strategy and avoid the tactics. Do you smell the fresh cookies baking in the deli? Did you taste those free samples of cereal when you walked into the store? Welcome to the world of store tactics. Their job is to make money marketing the products they sell. Your job is to steer clear of the tactics and stick to your grocery list. Don’t be enticed by the sale signs when you know something isn’t a good deal. Don’t go to the store hungry and don’t impulse-shop (unless it’s a good unadvertised buy, of course!). Smart spenders come prepared to shop for the items that will save them the most money, and they avoid the clever methods designed to persuade you to part with more of your paycheck than you should.

These aren’t the only money-saving techniques used by the shopping experts, but they are the basis for the very best buys. With a little discipline and organization, your grocery bills will shrink dramatically and your pantry will be overflowing!

Faye Prosser is the author of "The Smart Spending Guide", December 2005. Her mission is to help others become effective advocates for themselves and their hard-earned money. She teaches people how to budget, reduce debt, and save tremendous amounts of money on groceries and everyday purchases. For more information on "The Smart Spending Guide", the Smart Spending Coupon Organizer or Smart Spending Workshops, visit www.SmartSpendingResources.com

Faye Prosser may be contacted at http://www.smartspendingresources.com or saving@smartspendingresources.com


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